person’s real personality

Here are my 7 main rules for determining a person’s real personality.

1. Observe how the person responds during periods of stress. Does he get angry, verbally lash out or even physically lash out? Does he get worked up and lose control? In contrast, does he remain unperturbed, relatively calm, and keep control of his words?
2. Observe how the person treats subordinates. Does he treat them with respect, saying “thank you” and encouraging them, or does he treat them like pseudo-slaves? Does he tip food service workers generously? Does he hold open the door for strangers?
3. Observe how he treats his mother and father. Does he have loving, respectful relationships with them or is he distant and uninvolved? If he does not have a close relationship with his parents, that’s a huge red flag.
4. Observe the person while he’s driving a car. Is he in control emotionally or is he angry, impatient, often cursing, and disrespectful?
5. Observe how he talks about others when they are not around. Is he talking negatively about them, putting them down, verbally stabbing them in the back? If so, he’ll likely do the same to you when you’re not around.
6. When in a conversation, does he brag about himself and center the conversation around and about him? If so, he’s likely self-centered and arrogant.
7. Finally, is he honest in the little things of life, or does he tell frequent white lies or outright lies? If he can’t be trusted with the small things, he also can’t be trusted with the big things.
8. Bonus material: does he look you in the eyes and say “I’m sorry” when he’s wrong? If he’s unapologetic, he’s full of pride and likely insecure.

In short, social scientists say: "The more a person's faith, the stronger his personality."

for that, most of the worlds successful are religiously committed